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How do you get a male to talk to you about his feelings, when he prefers to bottle up and ignore you?
This month I will be married for 2 years. Unfortunately, whenever there is any issue I would like to have an open discussion about, my husband chooses to watch TV and ignore me. He doesn’t ever want to talk about anything. Recently I’ve learned he has turned to speaking with strangers online. So my question is how do I get my husband to open up to me about our marriage? We have serious communication issues and I would love to solve them and move forward. All advice is welcomed!
This is not an easy problem to deal with, and unfortunately a very common one. Many men find it difficult if not down right impossible to open up and share our feelings about almost anything.
One thing I can tell you is that I have lost 2 wives as a result of not being open and communicative with them.
Many times we are afraid that what we do have to say will cause problems or hurt our partner, therefore it’s much easier just to not say anything.
Guys like myself and your husband will probably always have this problem, but one thing that works is to keep working on him, get pouty with him.
Actually the best resolve would be a marriage counselor who can help you both open those doors of communication.
If you don’t start communicating then the frustration level on your part will only get worse, he’ll back into his shell more and more until finally the marriage is on the rocks. It takes a lot of work on both of your parts to get it right but it is well worth the effort to keep the marriage happy and healthy.
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